Janet Street-Porter is an astonishing human being who has achieved something truly unprecedented and marvellous.
Because of her, all the most recent comments currently visible below her latest Daily Mail article are sensible, compassionate, and heartening.
I don’t think I’ve ever seen that happen before on a Mail article, about anything.
In all other regards, however, she seems to be a contemptible failure of an effort at a human being.
She recently took up far too much room on the internet to tell us all that depression is a “new trendy illness” – in all fairness probably the headline-writer’s phrase, rather than hers, but it sums up her approach well. All these people suffering from stress and depression are apparently just trying to be fashionable, and just need some good old “self-empowerment”.
There’s a cursory mention of the fact that it’s recognised as a legitimate condition by medical professionals, i.e. people whose opinions actually fucking matter. But most of this tirade is just about how life is tough, we’re all going through things that are jolly hard, but most people “don’t get depressed about it, don’t take special medication and don’t whinge about ‘black holes'”.
Well la-di-da for you and your high horse, but sometimes we mere mortals get ill. And sometimes trained medical professionals will tell us that taking some of the “special medication” that you regard with such contempt will do us good and assist with our well-being, since that’s what the stuff’s fucking made for. Not everything can be sorted out by just bucking up and getting on with things, and that doesn’t make us weak.
This kind of haughty bullshit makes me want to push her down the stairs, then smugly point out that some of us don’t feel the need to whinge about “broken legs”. (In the context of the recent #twitterjoketrial, I should point out that this is an obvious joke, and should not be taken as a sincere threat. I do, however, plan to stab Richard Littlejohn in the face with a pair of scissors.)
“There’s virtually no stigma at all attached to saying you’re suffering from stress these days,” Janet continues, in the middle of an article telling sufferers of stress and depression to just get over it and pull themselves together.
Mental illness of all kinds comes with a serious stigma. Just today, in an unrelated context, mental health charity Rethink linked me to this article, which uses phrases like “stabby schizophrenics running about the place” with absolutely no concern for anyone’s feelings, and no visible interest in the evidence behind community-based mental health treatment.
And then Janet gets even more obnoxious, and I get even more sweary:
The idea of feeling sorry for a bloke with low self-esteem is, frankly, risible. Let’s just call it karmic revenge for all those years men have been in charge of everything.
Oh, fuck you.
There was plenty of room for a valid point in the context she brought up. Author Tim Lott apparently claims that, because men are no longer the sole or primary breadwinners in many households, their egos and feelings of self-worth are being damaged by how much their partners are earning.
This has some potentially very interesting implications about men’s perceptions of gender roles, and someone cleverer than me could probably write something fascinating about that. (Maybe Dr Petra already has.)
But no. Simply the “idea of feeling sorry for a bloke with low self-esteem” – the very notion that someone with a penis might have psychological problems, or feel insecure and upset about something and want to turn to others to help – makes Janet Street-Porter laugh.
I’m running out of words for quite how unkind, unsympathetic, and hateful this is. The implication that every eight-year-old boy getting bullied in the playground deserves what he gets because men have tended to oppress women in the past is beneath contempt.
This kind of careless, heartless attitude is only serving to exacerbate a general culture in which people don’t feel that they can ask for help. People with serious problems, who are suffering needlessly, and who could find necessary and important help if they knew how to ask for it, from doctors and from the community in general, are being told that the way they feel isn’t interesting, their misery isn’t important, and that they don’t deserve to have anyone care that what they’re going through.
Well, Janet Street-Porter might not care about other humans in pain, but a lot of people do, and that’s a far more important message which deserves wider distribution.